What is spanking? How to enjoy sexual pleasure with female partner during foreplay or during act doing spanking?
What is spanking with BDSM whips?
Spanking is a common activity in ubiquitous to sex in the BDSM world. Spanking gives a good chance to beginners and experts. It is most common practices for non-BDSM peoples or beginners. Earlier spanking is used to teach children how to behave, but now spanking is used to pleasure the partners. Spanking can be used for fun, foreplay, sex or just for feel it. Some lovers do spanking to feel dominant, while others to feel dominated. Spanking adds an extra bit of spice in the sexual world. It enhances the regular sex play or foreplay. Spanking is a way to pleasure the partner with a bit painful play. BDSM toys are compatible with each other. You can play the best SM play with all kinds of combinations, a whip, a bondage belt, a gagging ball and a rope. The whip is very useful as an entrance to the spanker and has various materials. Mainly leather is common, but there are also rubber and latex.
Spanking is a general effective punishment way in a sexual way. To use spanking in punishment way, make sure first let submission know about it, that it is not for fun. Punishment doesn't means show your anger. Spanking is just an act where spankee and spanker act by performance. Although spanking is natural and informal part of foreplay. Spanking could be in any part of a body, nut ass is the most prefer part if think about spanking. It varies sensation in both partners and makes moment wilder. The spanking word brings in mind to use hands, but to perform spanking, there are many spanking toys are available. You may also use them. During Spank the dominant get obsessed with submissive one, and submissive get pleasure with a scream.
How to do spanking in a whip etc. in SM play
In SM play where to spank, is up to you - the dominant and the submissive. Mostly, spanking involves at submissive's butt. The Foremost thing that you remember, do not spank in anger. Before the start, you need to make submissive feel naughty. Rest your hand on submissive's butt. Allure them. Give it long and naughty look to submissive's butt. Dominant have to get a tune with the ass, prepare that they are ready to play. Start with slow strokes on the butt, spanking lightly on the spot. Gradually higher the hits till submissive's bear the pain. hold submissive's hand flat or cupped. If you partner is beginners, maintain steady strokes. During Spanking, hit a one stroke per second. You have to control your strength, don't get wilder. Spanking has no limit.
It simply on your imagination. The major position that you can conduct: Over the Knee- Dominant sit on a comfortable chair and Submissive is lie down on Dominant lap facing the floor. It is most fantasy position. Dominant use one hand above the hips to maintain the position. Let's spank now.Over the desk- Submissive lie on chair or desk with their upper body facing the desk. This usually performs in school or workplaces.Face down on a bed- Most comfortable and long spankings position. The Submissive lie on a bed facing the bed and place a pillow under the hips. On all 4's- The Submissive position like a dog with their four arms. It is best to perform on a bed or hard surface.
Spanking can be a beginner
Yes, we can say that Spanking is a beginner. Spanking is the first option for couples if they are think about some SM play. Spanking is suitable practices for non BDSM peoples or beginners to come in BDSM world. What should be in mind, if dominant or submissive is beginner in spanking SM play. It is not about some minutes and it is about impact of Dominant or Submissive. First attempt is reflect the next attempt. If it is comfortable, it should be repeated again in future. It is not common in idea of erotic spanking, to keep beginner eye on butt instead of eyes. Spanking is not refer to deliver the painful pleasure with hands, it includes include the use of implements such as paddles, slappers, tawses, even canes, etc too.
Is training necessary for pleasure spanking?
As we discuss, Spanking is for the beginners and a step to enter in SM foreplay. This is not important to train yourself to spank. It about your needs and imagination. Ya, it good if you get full knowledge about Spanking. How to do? Where to do? Advantage and Disadvantages. It leads to comfortable play for both. If you are beginner in BDSM world and try spanking at first. It's responsibility to maintain the comfort, So you both ready to do next time too. Training leads to professional. Using a best techniques to spank at first, make you expert in SM play. Both spankee and spanker have equal role in SM play. Spankee is submissive and spanker is dominant. The Dominant have to control their strength according to The Submissive tolerance.
Notes and rules about spanking
- Both partners can enjoy the Spanking If they follow the proper etiquettes.
- Most important rule is Listen to partner or Submissive. Spanking is all about Submissive tolerance, listen to him/her.
- During spanking, ideal strength to use is 20% strength of Dominant. In tune, maximum 50%. Never spank more than 50% strength of yours.
- Strokes should be focused and only on lower or upper thighs.
- Stay away from close to a kidney, upper butt areas, etc.
- The spanking area gets red, so light caresses the every spank with hand.
- Do spank too hard that it printed on the spanked area.
- Avoid following any adult sites video or porn video.
- Before the start, remove all jewelry of both The Dominant and The Submissive.